Breastfeeding Basics

Breastfeeding Essentials: What You Actually Need (and What You Might Want Later)

Breastfeeding is a learning journey—for you and your baby. Here’s a simple guide to the essentials you’ll want early on, and a few extras you might choose to add as you find your rhythm.

HeyBebes Team

Mar 26, 2025

The early days of breastfeeding are filled with so many unknowns — what you’ll need most, what you’ll reach for often, and what can wait.
Instead of buying everything at once, it can help to start with the basics and build from there as you learn what works best for you and your baby.

Here’s a simple breakdown:

🍼 Early Essentials: Comfort, Healing, and Protection

These are the things that almost every nursing parent will need from the start:

  • Soothing nipple care: Silver nipple cups, lanolin, or other gentle treatments can help protect and heal sensitive skin.
  • Breast pads: Both reusable and disposable options help keep you dry and comfortable during letdowns and in between feeds.
  • Hot and cold therapy: Gel packs can help ease engorgement, encourage letdown, and soothe soreness naturally.
  • Milk collection: Milk collectors can help you save every drop, especially in the early weeks when supply is establishing.

These basics help manage the common challenges many parents face in the first days and weeks.

🛋️ Nice-to-Haves: As You Find Your Rhythm

As you get more comfortable, you might find a few extras really helpful, depending on your needs:

  • Feeding pillows to support your arms, back, and baby’s latch
  • Hands-free pumping bras if you're planning to pump regularly
  • Nursing-friendly clothing to make feedings on the go easier
  • Nipple shields or specialty feeding aids if recommended by a lactation consultant

Everyone’s journey looks a little different — what feels essential for one parent might be optional for another.

🌀 Bottom Line: Start Simple, Stay Flexible

You don’t need to have it all figured out on day one.


A few thoughtfully chosen essentials can make a big difference early on — and you can always add more as you and your baby grow together.

No matter where you are in your journey, the goal is the same: feeling supported, cared for, and confident. You've got this. 💛